Love and the city - Season 1 Episode 6 (English Version)

Watching the video of Just a kiss by Lady Antebellum, I started to think. Worst of all, the video reminded me of films Before Sunrise and Before Sunset.

A pity that last time I saw them was not with the right person. These films were recommended by Mr. Big when giving me up for the first time. When I saw them they made me think of Big, But Big recommended them because the remember of his ex.

Well the movies at last talk about this time that you know the perfect person and have it and can not retain it. Just 9 years after reunion and nothing has changed.

It really scares me. Can this really happen? Even, being with someone in those 9 years and never forget that perfect person? As a film I think it is great, but for real life ... 9 years lost too!

Returning to the video of Lady Antebellum, how beautiful it is to visit those cities with the right person! But how hard it's to say goodbye after this wonderful time!

But what do these two stories have in common? It may seem nothing, but they share the perfect person. That person you want to share every trip, every uninteresting moment and share your life.

But is there a perfect person? Is there someone we always wanted for us? Hopefully so, but every day I see more clearly that it is better not to seek but to find, probably what we seek is not good for us, because if so how could we go on without finding the other half having had candidates that fit in the profile?

The other day I was talking with a friend and how we arrived at our age without having had really important relationships or even not having a normal one.

On the other hand, what good in having relationships if they end up not working? Or worse, what good in having them and finally be cheated? This is the case of another friend of mine that after a relationship hard because she didn't know how to deal with the other person, has found that, in part, it was all a farce, what you have experienced has been a lie... And that happens often, you find the perfect person, you think it fits in the profile that you wanted and eventually discover that everything is a lie, that nothing is real... that the right person at the end is not because it is like the rest...

And how do you overcome this? Because at the end that end of a story is normal, but to meet your perfect person and realise that what you've always wanted doesn't fit with you, is at least strange.

Although now I realize: and if that person was not really perfect, maybe it's not so hard. As I said before you have been mislead, act and obviously that's not reality. So can we stop looking for the perfect person? Or perhaps what we should do is to stop trusting people and wait to see if it is really the right person or not.

This chapter is a little in the air because I have not the day mainly. My head is thinking about the next one that we could summarize, as my grandfather said, "I have already died and know who have cried for me".

LOVE AND THE CITY