Love and the city - Season 1 Episode 3 (English Version)

After my last episode, it never ceases to amaze me how many people can share the same situations at the same moments of life...

I said something about the emotional state of one of my friends... and what was my surprise when at least two of them, were identified themselves with the same comments. I hope those of you who read me are in the same situation and that these few lines I write, serve for something else ...

So after all this, the frequency of these post are going to have to increase ... I do not know if I can keep doing well English ... see!

First I'd like to say how this two girls have done... One of them remains unchanged, though I think even a little more in love... perhaps his Mr. Big is turning into Steve, but I think it will be for another chapter.

The other one is in a worse situation. Her love has come almost more into Carrie's Russian, more concerned about himself than her. The story is over, or not? Because it was another round story, with zoom in and out, with love and heartbreak. He says he no longer feels the same but why did not he say from the moment it was? Why has he preferred making even extend some things happen that should not happen?

This bring me back to how we react before dating, relationships ... Why do we hurt someone does not deserve it? I think there are two situations: 1 st we are because we do not want or ourselves and 2nd because we are bad people in the background.

In the first, sometimes react hurting because we have done to us, because we believe less and we have to get over the other, and so on. Mostly this happens with people who are more tender and sentimental than us.

Because in the end, relationships with more "weak" people scare us, it is like accepting that person may feel more than you and that's scary. At the end of a difficult relationship, which in a way you feel "less" engages us more than a simple relationship. This also seems to have a lot to do with those people who after the first date, feel a too strong love, after a regular appointment can you love that strong? Love at first sight exists but should not we be a bit more cautious? Eventually the person actually is known by the time ...

It is also true that the second option exists. People who are bad. But are they really bad or something happened in their life that makes them like that? A large percentage are people who have received the same treatment and end up playing it to not suffer as they did at the time when them. But for me, it is preferable having the heart in a box and not let him out ...

But as everything in life there are moments that take you to some other situations. Now I do not know where I am ... I may be having more dates than ever in my life and at the end, the same thing: when I like someone, someone do not like me and viceversa, or worse, I like someone to keep dating but not as if we were going out from the beginning, i had that in my life and I think it's best not to run, if you start a relationship quickly is more difficult to leave it.

Goning back to my friend, I think she met a guy from the second option and he is a bad person for what he has live before, he has reached the point of thinking about themselves and anyone else.

I think this is the worst point that we can get ...

For the next episode I think I'll throw in the sea of ​​break-ups and how to deal with them when you cut or the other one cut...

LOVE AND THE CITY